New, nervous and hopeful

[MarySmith]

Hi there,

I'm Mary Smith, and I'm 21 years old. I'm over 90kgs (approx. 200lbs) and I'm the most insecure I've ever been in my life. I've always thought that I was young and I'd have time to properly start dieting and exercising eventually, until I realized that I've been using the exact same excuse for over 5 years.

I have always been overweight, but for the past few years I've bloated up more than ever and cannot stand to look at myself in the mirror.

I've been browsing these forums for a while, and I've finally decided to take charge of my life. I really hope that this can be a turning point. I've seen how supportive you all are of each other and it's really nice to see.

Anyway, this is me, saying hello and for the first time, admitting that I really, really need help. It's good to be here

[tankini]

Hi Mary!
Great to "meet" you! My story is very similar to yours, I was heavy for all my teens and then finally I pulled myself together about a year and half ago and started to eat super healthy. I lost about 50 lbs, but it is a constant struggle to keep it off. I am learning that weight loss and being healthy is a whole education to itself and I learn more and more about it each day. It's like I have another full time "part time" job lol- to keep the weight off. I will say though that if I can do it anyone can and you will feel sooo much better. Nothing tastes as good as skinny feels.

[Lydiapurple]

Welcome Mary! I too am trying to take charge of my life. I have been heavy for the past 10 years and now I have my wedding coming up and I really want to look good in my dress and in the photos. You will for sure find support here it's full of great people who have all been there and most are super knowledgeable. Best thing about this forum is that no one judges. Looking forward to chatting with you!
~Lydia